Saturday, October 26, 2013

BREAST CANCER WISDOM 6: From Others and From Life Here…

From the first moment my wife discovered she had breast cancer, there was a deafening silence from the men I know. Even ones whose wives, mothers or girlfriends had breast cancer seemed to have received a gag order from some Central Cancer Command and did little more than mumble about the experience. Not one to shut up for any known reason, I started this blog…

I look for inspiration from many places – my wife, my kids, my parents, my brothers and sisters and in-laws and nephews and nieces and students – lots of places. I frequently find it.

What I don’t often find is inspiration with multiple layers.

My inspiration today comes in the life of a man who was diagnosed with breast cancer late in a life that was full of inspiration.

Very briefly and in his own words: “Mr. EDWARD BROOKE (Former Republican Senator, Massachusetts): I'm doing well. Thank you for asking. I did have breast cancer. They removed one of my breasts and took tissue from the other. They also removed about 13 lymph nodes and so far I'm doing well. And I've been working with the Cohen Foundation and Why Me Foundation to get the word out to men that if you have breast tissue, you can have breast cancer.”

In addition to an amazingly active political life and being showered with awards, former-senator Brooke is a strong, masculine beacon for guys who need to talk about breast cancer (that statement remind you of anything?)

He said, “‘I want to produce some male breast cancer awareness on a national level,’ Brooke explains. ‘I'm a very private person, but if I have to give up my privacy to save a life, then I am willing to do that. Because if you have breast tissue, you can get breast cancer. Don't forget that.’”

Inspiring. Powerful. Very much “a man” (complete with a tawdry, very Washingtonesque um…relationship life; he has come out later in life as an advocate for breast cancer awareness.

If you read my other website, you’ll know that most of my reading lies along the lines of science fiction, young adult novels, fantasy, and the occasional mystery. I will be adding to my list Edward Brooke’s 2006 biography, Bridging The Divide: My Life (http://www.amazon.com/Bridging-Divide-Professor-Edward-Brooke/dp/product-description/0813539056). I’ll let you know if I get inspired!


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