Saturday, October 31, 2015

GUY’S GOTTA TALK ABOUT #19…Spiritual Journeys


From the first moment my wife discovered she had breast cancer, there was a deafening silence from the men I know. Even ones whose wives, mothers or girlfriends had breast cancer seemed to have received a gag order from some Central Cancer Command and did little more than mumble about the experience. Not one to shut up for any known reason, I started this blog…

This is post 217…I started it four years ago.

I suppose I’ve avoided it because it’s tough to talk about and it would probably drive some men away, sending them running for the hills.

Twenty-first Century American White Midwest Culture does not hold male spiritual journeys in high esteem. In fact, it does everything it can to ridicule, downplay and crush any sort of discussion of anything that doesn’t have to do with football, Fords, and fight club; or investments, Lexus’, and finance.

But not emotion except rage, anger, cursing, shouting, rage, anger, and (patting on heads in) condescension.

Spirituality is to be avoided at all costs, in particular Christianity and whiteness which has somehow gotten tangled into some sort of White Supremacist Oppressionism – as Black Christianity is OK and untouchable.

There certainly wasn’t much help for me personally when my wife was diagnosed with breast cancer. The Church was even more silent than the rest of the male community – most likely because breast cancer deals with “breasts” and “cancer”; neither of which the Church as a whole deals with. At all. Perhaps because breasts are forbidden because of their link with __ e __ and “cancer’s” appearance of uncleanness – sort of like leprosy. So no one in the Church talks about breast cancer. Except to pray for healing.

Men don’t mention it and usually pretend no such thing exists.

Do I sound bitter?

It’s because I am. Incredibly so.

When you look at Relay For Life teams, there are military bases, squads, corporate sponsors, schools, individuals, and small businesses. I have yet to see anything like a “Church of Saint Immaculate Open Heart Episcopalian Non-denominational Hope” sponsor a team. None. At all.

No support from men in general; less-than no support from men in the Church.

As far as a crisis of faith goes, the past four years have been one ongoing crisis of faith for me.

I don’t have any words of wisdom here for anyone else in a crisis of faith as mine is ongoing.

If anyone else has come through this with any sort of Christian faith, I’d like to hear from you.

Resources: There aren’t any. Just stuff about “miraculous healing from bc”

Saturday, October 24, 2015

ENCORE #22! – Another “HOLD ON THERE BABA LOUIE!” Moment


http://voluume.fr/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/Encore-Sessions.jpgFrom the first moment my wife discovered she had breast cancer, there was a deafening silence from the men I know. Even ones whose wives, mothers or girlfriends had breast cancer seemed to have received a gag order from some Central Cancer Command and did little more than mumble about the experience. Not one to shut up for any known reason, I started this blog…That was four years ago – as time passed, people searching for answers stumbled across my blog and checked out what I had to say. The following entry appeared in May of 2012 and is a continuation of this essay: http://breastcancerreaper.blogspot.com/2012/05/another-hold-on-there-baba-louie-moment.html

Doctors harp on exercise.

Despite the harping – or in my case, perversely because of it – I avoid exercise like the plague.

Even so, as I read more and more sites promoting the “exercise makes you better if you have breast cancer” meme, I found that almost none of them give any kind of evidence as to WHY exercise fights cancer and promotes healing.

So I dug into the sites and finally found some evidence supporting this wild, “Do this one weird thing…” kind of meme. This week, it’s number:

9)        Physical activity appears to enhance proliferation of lymphocytes, increases the number of natural killer cells and increases lymphokine-activated killer cells activity.

What’s a “lymphocyte”?

What’s a “natural killer cell”?

What’s “lymphokine-activated killer cell activity”?

To tell you the truth, these appear to fade from easily definable to mumbo-jumbo-ish, so let’s have at it!

But we need to take one more step backward and start with White Blood Cells.

In contrast to the RED blood cell, which are the cells that make up the visible part of the blood. The red blood cells – or rbc’s – are the part of the blood that makes it RED! It’s red because each of the rbc’s has many heme molecules in it. The heme molecules are the ones that carry a tiny iron atom in their center. It’s the iron atom that OXYGEN grabs hold of so that the rbc’s can carry oxygen to the lungs allowing us to BREATHE. There are zillions of these little suckers in your bloodstream at all times and THEY come from the marrow in your bones.

So white blood cells – or wbc’s – don’t have heme in them; therefore they are, by comparison, WHITE. But they still travel in the bloodstream. Instead of carrying oxygen, they attack and destroy any germs that get into your body. They also take care of any other junk that gets in.

Lymphocytes are a kind of wbc. There are three kinds of lymphocytes – natural killer cells, T cells and B cells. Another name for the natural killer cells are NK cells. T cells are the kind of cells that the Human Immunodeficiency Virus (HIV) targets.

NK cells have the specific duty of protecting the body from tumors and viruses by “popping” the cells to destroy them; the other two handle the release of cytokines, lysis and immune regulation and creating antibodies.

The effect of exercise on NK cells however, seems to be blasted out of the water by the study referenced below and quote here: “…latent CMV infection is associated with lowered numbers of NK-cells expressing inhibitory receptors and a blunted mobilization of NK-cells in response to acute exercise. This may indicate a compromised immune response to ‘fight-or-flight’ situations in those infected with CMV.”

Conversely, “Moderate exercise has been reported to produce an anti-inflammatory environment and thus reduce the risk of infection. Conversely, continuous, intense exercise may increase oxidative stress (an overproduction of reactive oxygen species compared to the body’s ability to detoxify), inflammatory responses, as well as the risk for infection.”

And blasting back from the other side: “Longitudinal training studies in previously sedentary people have failed to show marked changes in T and B cell functions provided that blood samples were taken at least 24 h after the last exercise bout.” Also: “Evidence suggests that the prophylactic effect of exercise may, to some extent, be ascribed to the anti-inflammatory effect of regular exercise mediated via a reduction in visceral fat mass and/or by induction of an anti-inflammatory environment with each bout of exercise (e.g. via increases in circulating anti-inflammatory cytokines including interleukin (IL)-1 receptor antagonist and IL-10). To understand the mechanism(s) of the protective, anti-inflammatory effect of exercise fully, we need to focus on the nature of exercise that is most efficient at allieviating the effects of chronic inflammation in disease. The beneficial effects of endurance exercise are well known; however, the antiinflammatory role of strength training exercises are poorly defined. In addition, the independent contribution of an exercise-induced reduction in visceral fat versus other exercise-induced anti-inflammatory mechanisms needs to be understood better. There is consensus that exercise training protects against some types of cancers. Training also enhances aspects of anti-tumour immunity and reduces inflammatory mediators. However, the evidence linking immunological and inflammatory mechanisms, physical activity, and cancer risk reduction remains tentative.”

Translated: “We don’t know enough yet to say if exercise is magic”.

I’m NOT saying exercise is a waste of time. There are enough other benefits listed above to induce anyone who is hesitant or ridicules the IMPORTANCE of exercise in fighting and recovering from cancer (in this case breast cancer specifically) to start a regimen of moderate exercise and make it a regular part of life.

BUT if anyone says that the data are in and it’s a win and then runs out to hire a trainer or join an exclusive club offering personal coaching and cutting edge vegetable-fruit mixed drinks…well, like everything else that has to do with breast cancer, there’s no “cure all”, no magic bullet and nothing that works for everyone all the time.


Saturday, October 17, 2015

BREAST CANCER RESEARCH RIGHT NOW! #38: Study Shows BC Survivors DO NOT EAT HEALTHY DIET After Treatments!


http://www.choosingraw.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/full_1296502901DietaryGuidelines_thumb.jpgFrom the first moment my wife discovered she had breast cancer, there was a deafening silence from the men I know. Even ones whose wives, mothers or girlfriends had breast cancer seemed to have received a gag order from some Central Cancer Command and did little more than mumble about the experience. Not one to shut up for any known reason, I started this blog…

Every month, I’ll be highlighting breast cancer research that is going on RIGHT NOW! Harvested from different websites, journals and podcasts, I’ll translate them into understandable English and share them with you. Today: http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2015/10/151013102402.htm

You’d THINK that after all that work taking care of this d****d disease, the very first people who would start to think about healthy eating would be BC survivors.

This study shows otherwise – and not just by a little bit: “Cancer survivors had poor adherence to the [2010 Dietary Guidelines for Americans...jointly issued by the Department of Agriculture and the Department of Health and Human Services…], with a total Healthy Eating Index score of 47.2 out of 100 compared with a score of 48.3 in adults without a history of cancer. Their adherence was especially poor concerning recommended intake for green vegetables and whole grains” (Emphasis mine).

Not that the rest of us are “doing fine”, but it seems obvious that someone whose life has been turned around by incredible medical means, would then want to continue to live a healthy lifestyle.

What is the 2010 Dietary Guide asking us to do? Not much:

1) Build a healthy plate

2) Cut back on foods high in solid fats, added sugar, and salt

3) Eat the right amount of calories for you

4) Be physically active your way


No surprises, nothing inappropriate, no sacrifices. It’s pretty much common sense stuff.

Yet BC survivors do WORSE at it than standard Americans.

I think I need to consider this for myself and talk with my wife about us eating better! (Not that we do a bad job...)