Saturday, February 20, 2016

GUY’S GOTTA TALK ABOUT #22: Invisible, Internal, Injuries…


From the first moment my wife discovered she had breast cancer, there was a deafening silence from the men I know. Even ones whose wives, mothers or girlfriends had breast cancer seemed to have received a gag order from some Central Cancer Command and did little more than mumble about the experience. Not one to shut up for any known reason, I started this blog…
Most of the men I know understand the sheer frustration of the “intermittent noise” from when they were young, studly, and did all of their own car work – not because they were interested in being amateur auto mechanics, but because there was no other choice. Someone from a garage working on your car was pretty much out of the question. It was do-it-yourself or stop driving.

Somewhere during the amateur auto mechanic era, you ran across the ultimate irritation: the thing that only happens sometimes. The engine only overheats…sometimes. The brakes seem to grind like two sandstone bricks. The oil light flickers when slow down to a certain speed. The engine smokes a little when you turn the steering wheel hard…

They would drive you not only crazy, but to distraction. Driving down the highway, intentionally as close to the barrier wall as you can, window rolled down so you can listen for “that weird noise”…as you drift out of the lane and on to the shoulder!

I thought those days were over until a couple weekends ago.

My wife and I were watching TV and the remote slid to the floor. We’d get it later. Then our daughter called, my wife reached to get the remote to pause the DVD; chest against the arm of the couch...and gasped, sitting up, answering the phone, and chatting with our daughter. When she hung up, she gasped, “It feels like a knife between my ribs!”

She laid back for a while, but we eventually headed to the ER of our local hospital, waiting until someone could come and tell us…pretty much nothing. “Might have torn some muscle tissue beneath the implant.” Pause. “But we can’t see anything with an X-ray, so we’ll give you some pain relievers and call it a night. See your regular doctor if you have more pain.”

OK. Helpful, but not overly helpful.

My wife had commented then and over the next few days that it seemed like something under the implant was “hitching”. I watched the following video, in particular for us: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2KcXt3dJI_w

While there’s nothing to “hitch” on the muscle, it certainly seems possible that some of the stitching might have torn. I know that the actual stitches are long healed; but despite scar formation, it would seem to me that the edges would be weaker than the original, uncut tissue. I’m not a surgeon, but it seems POSSIBLE.

I DID find some comments on muscle tearing, pain, and bruising under the implant last night, but I lost them when my “history” cleared overnight. I seem to recall that using a CT and/or ultrasound might be able to detect problems, but I can’t find the reference. I’ll keep looking and get back to you. For now, the pain seems to be lessening – but she still feels the “hitch”. She’ll be checking with her oncologist in March, so maybe we can find out something then…

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