Saturday, April 22, 2017

GUY’S GOTTA TALK ABOUT #34…The Normality of a Breast Cancer Life

From the first moment my wife discovered she had breast cancer, there was a deafening silence from the men I know. Even ones whose wives, mothers or girlfriends had breast cancer seemed to have received a gag order from some Central Cancer Command and did little more than mumble about the experience. Not one to shut up for any known reason, I started this blog…

So the past 23 days, we’ve had our son, daughter-in-law, and our two grandchildren staying with us on vacation from South Korea where he serves in the US Army.

It brought to mind that despite the fact that cancer was the focus of every thought for some time, other matters – in this case, our family – fill our every waking moment.

To reduce it to its barest bones, cancer might be characterized as death; family as life.

When life is written large – playgrounds; meals out; work thrown in because it has to be there; Mystery Caves and Malls of America and Como Park Zoos and Welcome Home parties and former high schools and other places barely remembered because there were so many – and full of life; it masks death so effectively that it’s easy to forget about it. To ignore it. To act as if it didn’t exist.

Or to fly in the face of death, sneer, then shout whilst shaking your fist, “Despite you, we will LIVE!”

That’s what this time has been like for me.

Thank you, God for the joy these hours and days have immersed us in!


No comments:

Post a Comment